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Carters dresser full of special junk treasures. |
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I am not sure how I got a hoarding daughter, as I am notorious for being a purger, as a matter of fact I hate clutter so much I often get rid of perfectly goods things that I actually need. The Goodwill and I have a fantastic relationship. The only thing I hoard or collect is jeans. I really do feel that you can
never have too many pairs of jeans,
never. Often around this time of year I get the clean-out bug, just in time for new things from Christmas. My kids know the drill. Out with the old in with the new. Carter recently decided that she no longer wants or needs her mini My Little Pony figures so we posted on
Craigslist and she hopes to make $20 to buy some Christmas presents for her family and friends. She has been eyeing
this card making kit and has quite the list of recipients. I absolutely love the Christmas season, all the giving and sharing. However, I had a conversation with my mother in law yesterday about what my kids need or want for Christmas and I was really stumped, we honestly have SO much, so many blessings and so many toys. Obviously, you can see from Carters pile of stuff that she likes to collect and that she needs nothing. I certainly do not want spoiled kids but I also know the joy that grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles, and Jeremy and I have when seeing our children's faces light up on Christmas morning. It's a fine balance that we are continually working on. As Carter gets older I know that she won't want
silly little toys anymore, especially after getting rid of a huge pile of silly little mini My Little ponies, but she is 8 and still little after all. I had to resist the urge to make her to purge all her little treasures. They mean something to her. I like clean, tidy and orderly. She likes a little mess and lots of stuff. I like that she is making her own decisions about what to get rid of and I like that she is selling to buy stuff to make and give to others. She might have a little bit of hoarding in her but she also has a big heart and a really creative mind. Some of the greatest and smartest people were also some of the messiest.