This morning I woke up with
this song in my head, not because I love that Broadway show or even really like the song but because Jeremy and I have been married 3, 252 days (2 leap years added) which equals 10 years! I was singing it 3, 652 minutes, instead of what they do but either way I have a feeling it will be in my head all day. It's funny, now, how ridiculously young we were when we got married, 23 years old, babies living in New York city without a clue as to where or what our lives would be like. We have certainly had many challenges along the way, maybe more than some other married couples, maybe not. We have shared heartbreaking losses and disappointments. We have made last minute decisions (Carter's name, moving back to WA, etc.) and other decisions that seem to take forever to make and sometimes never happen. We have shared so many intimate moments together that sometimes just thinking of us on the day our babies were born makes me wonder how anyone on earth could ever get divorced, but then again I can also remember our darkest times when life was hard or stressful and divorce seemed the easy way out. But, I have never wanted the easy way out and Jeremy never has either, but marriage
is hard work. It's the kind of hard work I like. When I think of the hard times it is far outweighed by the great, wonderful, easy good times. Jeremy makes life fun. We have a great time. After 10 years of marriage we can share a glance at each other that speaks volumes. We know what each other are thinking or feeling. It is that security of being married to your best friend that makes life and marriage so great. These past 10 years went so fast, it's unbelievable, it really is. I don't really know how this is possible but I love him and like him more today, 10 years later than when we married. He's pretty fantastic, I am blessed.
a few wedding pictures: